Lotus Emigene Thomas1,2
F, #51271, b. 26 August 1918, d. 9 August 2007
Parents
BASIC FACTS
Lotus Emigene Thomas was born on 26 August 1918 in Richmond, Contra Costa Co., California.1,3 She died on 9 August 2007, at age 88, in Irvine, Orange Co., California.3 She was buried in Suisun-Fairfield Cemetery, Fairfield, Solano Co., California.4 Lotus Emigene Thomas had reference number 51585. She was enumerated on the census in Los Angeles County, California (1940.) Lotus married Robert H. McCallum in 1941.
Excerpt from a diary written by Lotus Emigene (Thomas) Reeves-McCallum. Scans of several diary pages were given to me by her son, Mike "Mac" McCallum.
Eagle Rock (1)
. . . Weekends were spent at the Civic Auditorium in Pasadena, the Palladium in Los Angeles, the Rendezvous in Balboa and any other available place. This was the era of the "Big Bands." It seems at this time in my life I need some direction, but this never occurred. I was so naive. Home was not a place I wanted to be and I was rebellious. No respect. I walked to school every day (in high-heels) about three miles. I guess I was popular. I was class secretary in my senior year. Easter break, 1937, my good and dear friend, Marguerita Mays, invited me for the week at Hermosa Beach. It was here I met Bob Reeves (2) . I graduated in June of that year. After graduation, I spent [time] with Bob Daniels, he had a new car, a graduation present. We still talk about the good time we had. After graduation I was seeing Bob Reeves a lot. He was from Glendale and had a nice group of friends. I recall going to Los Angeles to the Paramount Theater, in those days they always featured vaudeville acts plus the movie. The Rite Spot, a drive-in, was the place to go after the theater, it was in Glendale. After graduation, I wanted to continue my education, perhaps Business School. Art (3) gave me a very firm "No" go to work. The only job I had ever had was in 1936, Christmas, at a Five and Ten Store at First and Broadway in Los Angeles. Not much experience! But I was fortunate to have as my good friend, Jeanne Beauchamp (her father owned Dr. Beauchamp Credit Dentists (4)). She was working in Los Angeles at the office at Fifth and Broadway. They hired me to work. I went, at twelve dollars a week (6 days) and two dollars taken out for my uniform (nurses) each week. By the end June, 1937 -- I was pregnant. What a terrible situation. Bob Reeves was the father and didn't want to admit to anything. I didn't have anyone to turn to, especially my mother. So I suffered and prayed. Of course she finally realized what a predicament I was in. After much discussion with the Reeves family, he consented to marry me. I was definitely against an abortion. We drove to Santa Barbara with another couple. Me in a black dress, trying to disguise my condition. We were married at City Hall in Santa Barbara by a judge. We went back to Engle Rock and lived with my mother and Art. Which didn't last too long. Art said "Get out." No money, no place to go. I ended up with his grandparents (5) in Glendale and Bob R. went home with his parents. I was miserable. My mother never contacted me. I don't believe she ever knew where I was. The baby was getting close, we needed a place to live. With some effort I persuaded him to look for a place. We found a very small one bedroom house, on Colorado Blvd. in Glendale. It was in the back yard of a front house. Twenty-five dollars a month, no furniture, (one chair) and holes in the floor where you could see the ground. At least it had a roof. Bob R.'s sister (6) and I became very close. She watched after me and became part of my life. She was God Sent. Helped me through many difficulties. My mother finally came around and found us. Then insisted I go to Dr. Stewart in South Gate, a long way to go for the baby's delivery. Gary (7) was born in South Gate, March 25, 1938. When Gary was about six months old, we moved to Eagle Rock. First in a place near Yosemite then to a flat on Los Robles. Bob R. started spending more time away from home, working late he said. I don't know when I found out (or did he tell me) he had a girl friend. I was so stupid -- she said she was pregnant and I invited her to dinner. What a cozy little group, Bob R., his girl friend, Gary and me. Mary, my sister-in-law was very supportive, she thought her brother crazy. I had a notion I didn't want my son to have a step-father, so I tried to disregard the problem. Hoping things would get better, but it only got worse. I finally left him. Rented an apartment on Colorado Blvd. over a cleaners. Went back to work at Dr. Beauchamp Credit Dentist in Los Angeles. This meant I had to have a baby-sitter for Gary. My schedule was a little hectic. I had to get Gary up, feed and dressed him. Get on a street car for a few miles -- get off and walk a few blocks to the baby sitter's house. Then back on the street car heading for Fifth and Broadway. After work it was the same schedule, only in reverse. This was a very down time in my life. I was so depressed. I felt no one would ever be interested in me. I had been married and had a child! Making thing more difficult, ten dollars a week was not enough to make things come together. The only alternative was to live with my mother and Art. They were living on Hartwick Street. My mother consented to watch Gary for me. This was a decision I have regretted all my life, but it was the only way out at that time.
Backing up a little -- for many years I had wondered about my father (8) and had tried to locate him, to no avail. I had always been told I was just like my father, "No good." It seems it was soon after my eighteenth birthday, my mother showed me a letter from my father. He wrote he would like a picture of me. I was "of age" so he was not responsible for child support anymore. There was an address and I was delighted. Immediately I said "I will go see him." Bob R. drove me to the address in Los Angeles. I was very brave and went up the walk, to the front door and rang the door bell. A man opened the front door and I said, "Are you Elmer Thomas?" He said, "Yes." I replied, "I am your daughter." He must have been rather startled, but he invited me in. I met his wife, Laura. I don't recall the conversation. I started seeing them regularly and told them they had a grandson. Laura worked in Los Angeles, we saw each other often, when I was working at Dr. Beauchamp's. They seemed to accept Gary and me and we had Christmas 1938 with them.
Living with Art and my mother was depressing. But the Lord is good and my life was about to change. [Lotus goes on to describe meeting and marrying Bob McCallum.]
Notes:
1) Eagle Rock is a neighborhood east of Glendale and northeast of Los Angeles in the San Rafael Hills, Los Angeles County, California. Eagle Rock is named after a large rock outcropping, resembling a profile of an eagle's head.
2) Robert Thomas Reeves (1915 - 1976).
3) Arthur Jules "Art" Leroux (1887 - 1960), Lotus' step-father.
4) In the 40s and 50s, radio, bill boards, newspapers and later television commercials advertised "Dr. Beauchamp Credit Dentist" all over the Los Angeles area.
5) This must have been Bob's maternal grandparents, Tom and Mary (maiden name unknown) Lewis. His paternal grandparents never left Tennessee.
6) Mary F. (Reeves) Conrad (1916 - 1994).
7) Gary Robert Reeves (1938 - 2009).
8) Elmer Otis Thomas (1898 - 1985).
Citations
- [S2032] 1940 Census, California, Los Angeles County
- [S4711] Email from Mike "Mac" McCullum dated July 15, 2014
- [S6497] Genealogy prepared by kevstod (Ancestry.com)
- [S4980] Find A Grave (Internet), Source Medium: Book